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37 – The Embodied Slut

You can recognise the embodied slut by the way she walks. She is soft and sensuous in her actions, poised and calm. Intentionally directing or not directing her energy as she pleases.She owns and calls forward her own luminous energy and lives a liberating life. She has found fulfilment in her own body and unlocked a world that is uniquely her own. When you step into this space, you are no longer operating from the standards of society, although you certainly may abide by the legal constructs.

You can recognise the embodied slut by the way she walks. She is soft and sensuous in her actions, poised and calm. Intentionally directing or not directing her energy as she pleases. She owns and calls forward her own luminous energy and lives a liberating life. She has found fulfilment in her own body and unlocked a world that is uniquely her own. When you step into this space, you are no longer operating from the standards of society, although you certainly may abide by the legal constructs, but you’ve found a soft space in which you are free to make the ordinary sacred and your life a work of art rather than an arrival at a place. I want to chat about this concept of embodiment and sluttiness. I have been both an embodied slut. And also simply embodied. And just a slut.She owns and calls forward her own luminous energy and lives a liberating life. She has found fulfilment in her own body and unlocked a world that is uniquely her own. When you step into this space, you are no longer operating from the standards of society, although you certainly may abide by the legal constructs, but you’ve found a soft space in which you are free to make the ordinary sacred and your life a work of art rather than an place to arrive at.

I want to chat about this concept of embodiment and sluttiness. I have been both an embodied slut. And also simply embodied. And just a slut.

But I know from my own life, and the women I have interviewed on sex that the best sluttiness is embodied in our being. From this place we are operating from our core, and our entire being is radiant with softness, love, and delight. This is embodied sluttiness.

So, how are we to step into this sexual and sensual space which offers pleasure beyond the ordinary domain?

We start with constructs.

Ask yourself what positive associations do you have with the following words:

The word: ‘woman’.
The word: ‘slut’.
The word: ‘feminine’.

And then ask yourself what negative associations do you have with the following words:

The word: ‘woman’.
The word: ‘slut’.
The word: ‘feminine’.
This will reveal much to you.

Do you view sluts differently? How so?

What about ‘woman’ and ‘feminine’, how do their constructs differ for you?

And how are these associations showing up and even possibly limiting you and your life?

Understanding how we view the identities that we wear, can help dismantle any traits that we are holding which no longer serve us. Because let’s be honest, being liberated sexually and in our integrity is a lot of fun and not only that it opens our voice up, our creativity and our life.
What is the embodied slut?

Embodiment is feeling relaxed and sensitised in our body. Embodiment helps us to come home to the presence of our body- our whole body including our ovaries which hold their own unique wisdom – are talking to us.
When our body lets us know that we feel stressed, or we are carrying trauma, or feeling overwhelmed it has its own messages. Tingling sensations, numbness, and pain are all examples of dissociation in the body. Things that take us away from our core, and from feeling relaxed in your senses You can recognise the embodied slut by the way she walks. She is soft and sensuous in her actions, poised and calm. Intentionally directing or not directing her energy as she pleases. She owns and calls forward her own luminous energy and lives a liberating life. She has found fulfilment in her own body and unlocked a world that is uniquely her own. When you step into this space, you are no longer operating from the standards of society, although you certainly may abide by the legal constructs, but you’ve found a soft space in which you are free to make the ordinary sacred and your life a work of art rather than an arrival at a place. I want to chat about this concept of embodiment and sluttiness. I have been both an embodied slut. And also simply embodied. And just a slut.in the moment.

Here’s a few questions for you:

Do a quick scan of your body. Where do you feel blocked in your body? (Things to look out for are: If there any numbness, tingling sensations or sharp pain coming up?)

How does my relationship that you have with your body affect your life?

How can I increase the intimacy that I have with my body everyday and every moment throughout the day?

Embodiment helps you bring more of yourself and the feminine which can broaden your feminine landscape and your life. It is not about trying to get somewhere but reclaiming the potential that your body already holds within it. We are restoring the wild feminine within ourselves when we rediscover the lost parts, painful parts and integrate awareness. Particularly to the lower body.

There are many factors that take us away from being that embodied slut. The world we live in is a prime example. When our energy as women is depleted because we are living every day from mostly masculine mode then that will cause dissociation from our body and intern things like: low sex drive will energy, we may end up with problems in our lower body as an example.

So, embodiment and sluttness go hand in hand.

But as I have said, once I was a slut and dissociated from my body. In fact, I was riding the clitoral orgasmic wave and just living from that high. I was not intune with my body but rather disconnected and seeking any sort of relief to help me connect. Because unconsciously I did want to be embodied but I didn’t know how to go about it.
So, here are some practises to help you to step into the embodied slut.

These practises are geared toward relaxation, pleasure and getting you in touch with your sensuality and sexuality:

– Meditation / yoga
– Dance/ movement
– Intellectual stimulation (reading sexual development books)
– Community (of other embodied sluts)
– Creative pursuits – not just pursuing your creativity to share with the world but to share with yourself.
– Self pleasure (aka masturbation)
– Sex (that is not focused on the goal but is focused on the sensations and the journey)
– Earthing (taking your shoes off and walking on the grass)
– Receiving pelvic care (yoni massage from a pelvic care professional)

As we pay attention to our body we begin to engage with our whole being. This transforms how we respond mentally and emotionally. As we move into embodiment, and open ourselves up to being in the present moment, relaxed, in-tune with our bodies signals and also sensitive to our emotions and the world around us we capture our core: the embodied slut.

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